SERIES-ENJOYING THE JOURNEY

 

*To be happy with a Man, you must understand a lot and love him very little. To be happy with woman, love her a lot and not try to understand her at all.*

                                        


*TOPIC SERIES-ENJOYING THE JOURNEY.*

BIBLE TEXT - 2 CORINTHIANS 8:6-8

*1.LIVING AND CLEANING IS AN ACT BECOMING ONE FLESH IS A PROCESS.*

*2. THAT EARLY ROMANTIC FEELING MAY FADE AWAY BUT IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT LOVE HAS DRIED UP.*
Love is not a feeling, Love is a commitment.
The love of a Mother is not that of a feeling, they don't feel butterflies in their Tommy for their children but they still love them.

*3. ANY COUPLE THAT CAN FIND FULFILMENT IN ONE ANOTHER, THEY CAN FACE WHATEVER LIFE BRINGS TO THEIR DIRECTION.*

*4 KEYS TO A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE*

1. ACCEPT YOUR SPOUSE.
2. COMMUNICATE WITH GRACE.
3. INTEGRATE INTO EACH OTHER.
4. OPEN YOUR HAND GENEROUSLY.

*OPEN YOUR HAND GENEROUSLY*
It's a very difficult thing to share your life with a miser.
Understand that the moment you make up your mind to get married, you must have a generous and open hand.

The bible said "God so loved the world that He Gave... "

The proven way to show your love is to Give.
To have a beautiful home and a wonderful marriage, you have to Give.
To check the temperature of the body, you use Thermometer.
*To check the temperature of your marriage you use 'HeartoMeter'*.
*To know the Measurement of the Heartometer you check the Sacrifice you have given.*
*2 CORINTHIANS 8:5-8*- Having the Grace to Give.

*Husbands don't have a problem giving to your Wife*

*GIVING IS NOT A MAN'S AFFAIR ONLY WOMEN GIVE TOO.*

*EVERYONE IN A RELATIONSHIP HAS SOMETHING TO BRING TO THE TABLE.*

*PROVERBS 19:6* - People who know how to give don't miss out on friends.
In giving, please don't compare yourself with other family. We don't give because we have too much but We give because we Love Too Much.
At your level where you are, learn how to Give and Bless your family, surprise your wife, Surprise your husband, Catch your fun right now.

*GIVE AT YOUR LEVEL PER TIME*

For Every Season Matters. Don't miss your seasons, seasons don't wait for anybody.

*WHY DO PEOPLE NOT GIVE TO YOUR SPOUSE.*

1. A LOT OF PEOPLE DON'T VALUE SMALL SACRIFICES.

2. SOME PEOPLE HAVE ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY.

When they are coarsed into a Marriage.
Women can give also when they are in a capacity to do so.

3. THEY HAVE PRIORITIZED OTHERS OTHER THAN THEIR SPOUSES.

4.PEOPLE DON'T GIVE WHEN THERE IS UNRESOLVED HURTS AND QUIET FRUSTRATIONS.

Always minimise unresolved conflicts and Tension.

Don't let conflicts with your spouse last. The Bible said "Don't let the sun go down  on your Anger. "

*HOW DO I BECOME GENEROUS IN MY MARRIAGE*

1. ACCEPT THE DEMANDS OF MARRIAGE AS A PRIVILEGE AND NOT A BURDEN.

Know that giving your wife and children is a privilege. There are so many people wishing for the gift of a Family.

2. REFUSE TO ALLOW YOUR HOME CARRY THE  ATMOSPHERE OF SCARCITY.

having a ready made negative response of 'Don't Have'.
Husbands please when things don't work for you and your wife is the one bringing in the money, Please bring it in Attitude and Gratitude. Try to complement the effort of your wife in the family. It's only for a season.
Men don't bring fight into your home. Make it a place so beautiful to draw strength from.
Until you see your marriage  as a safe haven to make it work then you will be happy.

3. USE LITTLE SURPRISES AND EXTRAVAGANT MOMENTS TO MAKE FAMILY MEMORIES.

Take delight in serving your family for there are many blessings there in.

*PROPHETIC DECLARATION- My marriage is blessed, my family is blessed, No Stinginess, My heart will be opened, everyone will play their role, joy and peace will abide in my home, in Jesus name, Amen.*

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