*ALLOW THEM.*

                                      

We've all complained about how irresponsible youth are, but we've missed the fact that we're the ones encouraging it by establishing a system that encourages it. We foster an environment in which irresponsibility can thrive.

When we avert our focus away from their wrongdoing and do all they are supposed to do for them in the name of "I don't want my children to go through what I went through."

 

We soften every blow that comes their way; making mistakes is a no-no for them. Our housekeepers would have to do everything while they slept. At other times, they are just occupied with watching television, playing computer games, or surfing the internet. Yet our domestic workers are paid as they gain skills and competence right under our noses.

 

We attempt to shield children from every type of suffering, but we forget that life itself will cast shadows on them. We prevent them from honing their skills and using their executive functions. Despite this, we protested about recklessness.

 

They have already been deactivated, and their ability to take initiative has been eliminated before it has even begun. 

As a result, they face life as if they were robots moved by an external force; otherwise, they would not operate.

 

Allow your children to deal with their difficulties as you observe and guide them. Allow them to try new things and give them permission to do what others are doing; it may not be comfortable, but it will not kill them.Rather, it will stretch them while also honing their skills.

Solving every problem and softening every blow is overparenting, and it causes more harm than good. 

                                  

I am pastor E O Gabriel.

A very blessed evening.

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