HONOUR YOUR SPOUSE, PAY ATTENTION TO DETAILS,NO MORE LABELLING AND  GOOD AFTERNOON SIR, AFTERNOON.

                                 

One teen coach told of a father who was sad and bitterly lamenting about how disrespectful and rude his son had become. He's baffled as to how he got to that point. He treats people rudely, which irritates his father.

According to the father, he is at a loss as to what to do because all efforts to discipline him appear to be futile.

While he was still sharing his tales of woe, his wife called, and he was very rude in his response to her. He even referred to her as stupid. He told her she was useless and stupid.
 
The coach and his pal exchanged glances. They can clearly see where the son learned his
 
Your house is your children's first school, and you are their first socializing agent. Your parenting style is the unwritten curriculum you use to raise your child. What your wards see you do will be replayed in their day-to-day lives.
 
So, when you insult your spouse and those around you, realize that you've set a precedent and a template for your children to follow.
 
I hope it's a useful template.

 

*PAY ATTENTION TO DETAILS.*

                                      

 
Being detailed entails being thorough and meticulous. When you analyze something in detail, it suggests you paid close attention to it. You look at it attentively, evaluating all of its distinguishing qualities so that you can identify them or notice when they are missing.
 
Developing a high attention to detail makes you more efficient at work, increasing productivity and decreasing the likelihood of error. Paying attention to details can help you increase your efficiency, productivity, and performance.
 
The issue with our generation is that we just want to get it done and over with it. We are not detail-oriented. We are always eager to move on to the next item on our list. As a result, we wind up with a lot of things done sloppily.
 
Excellence is a byproduct of attention to detail. Everyone wants to have the best customers, relationships, children, family, job, and so on, but no one wants to pay attention to the finer points.
 
When you see people who do, those who do not want to pay attention to details are labeled. A single blunder might jeopardize your credibility as well as the credibility of others. Paying attention to details can save you a lot of trouble. Many people have missed out on wonderful opportunities due to a lack of this competence.
 
You can improve your attention to detail if you are more organized. Make lists of everything you wish to do.
 
Maintain a routine, prioritize quality, and learn to meditate.
 

*NO MORE LABELLING*.

                                           

 
Growing up, I witnessed many parents calling their children amusing names for various reasons. It's even amusing that they don't want others to call their children by the same name.
 
At times, it is the people around a child who label him or her. The majority of these labels are negative and pejorative; they are intended to mock, humiliate, and dismiss people. The children gradually internalize what they are called and begin to live up to it. A label is a little piece of paper, fabric, plastic, or other similar material that is attached to an object to provide information about it.
 
It's also a classifying, defining term or name given to someone or something, especially if it's wrong or restricted.
 
Labeling, or applying a label, is the process of describing someone or something with a single word or brief phrase.
 
 Many times, parents wonder why their children behave in a specific way when, unbeknownst to them, they are simply living up to the labels you impose on them.
 
 Labels, like names, are predictions and identities, and the continual repetition of that label reinforces it. When a child hears terms like "stupid," "idiot," "useless," "worthless," and so on over and over, it becomes a part of their identity because it is imprinted in their subconscious. They begin to live out what you have named them, whether consciously or unconsciously.
 
 Labeling a child negatively steals their true identity, kills their self-worth, and ultimately destroys their self-esteem.
 
Some of them may even laugh about it and pretend as if it's nothing, but deep down, they cringe. They are distressed and start to identify with the labels. They begin to see themselves through those lenses. There is no such thing as a perfect being on Earth. Everyone has a weakness, and labeling your child magnifies their weaknesses far more than their strengths.
 
Now is the time to take a new turn. No more labeling.
 

*GOOD AFTERNOON SIR, AFTERNOON.*

                                       

 
I ran into my son on his way home from school one day, and we started conversing. Daddy, why is it that when children greet adults, they do not respond properly, and yet the same adults will say that the children are impolite because they did not greet them or respond in the same manner that they just did?
 
What exactly do you mean? As I was becoming lost in this conversation, I inquired. According to him, he had said "Good afternoon, sir," and the response had been a nonchalant, mindless "afternoon" in passing, which had become a habit. Does this imply that adults have no regard for children?
 
Wow, that got me thinking about how we as adults treat children as if they don't exist, as if they're unimportant, as if they're just a passing fad, yet we won't take that from them when they do the same to us.
 
Aren't we being hypocritical? Why should we demand from them what we are unwilling to give? We all claim that the youth of this generation are different, but we adults are not immune; they are simply reflecting back to us who we were. What they've learned from us over the years
 
When you notice a little child not behaving properly, rather than chastise him or her, simply model excellent behavior for him or her to see. Simply demonstrate the right procedure or manner. That seemingly little deed has the power to transform an entire generation.
 
Children, like adults, have feelings and deserve to be treated with respect.
 
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