*DON'T RAISE YOUR BOYS IN THIS MANNER.*

                          AND 

    THIS IS A BIG NO-NO.

                                     

I recently saw a post by a woman who stated that she must prepare fresh food every day so that her children do not consume stale food.

There's nothing wrong with this as long as Mom is ready to help them out. However, the problem is that these same children do not even know how to boil water in order to save their own lives.
 
When asked if the children were learning how to cook, the answer was no. Her daughter is adjusting to kitchen labor, but her son, who adores machinery, is often buried in his books or rooms.
 
This is a ticking time bomb on its way to detonate. Let them know what it takes for them to live in comfort.

The problem with that young boy is that he will grow up believing that cooking is only for women and that any woman who cannot provide a daily meal rather than stockpiling food for the week is lazy.
 
Why do you think that is? All he had to do was play with his machines and wait for meals, and Mom did it all with his sister in tow without complaining.
 
The process of comparison begins. Then he starts calling his wife a slacker for not following in his mother's footsteps. That becomes the catalyst for irreconcilable conflicts, which may lead to marital instabilities; before he realizes it, he has been married two or three times, yearning for his mother in other women.
 
This type of person has no concept of appreciation for their wives or paid employees since they believe they are squandering money on something their wives have refused to do.
 
It's fine to spoil your children; just make sure they understand what it takes to enjoy the luxuries they desire. They are aware of the amount of effort required to achieve that. Don't do everything for them.
 
Get them involved in the process of doing things they enjoy. They become more responsible and empathetic towards others as a result of this.
 

*THIS IS A BIG NO-NO!!!*

                                  

 
Last week, a woman hurriedly approached a gasoline station attendant to inquire about the location of a restroom.
 
In her haste to relieve herself, she only murmured her greetings as she passed. She dashed in to relieve herself, only to find the bathroom locked.
 
She returned to the guy who directed her to tell him the place was locked, so he sent her to another guy, who I estimate to be in his late teens but not yet twenty years old. Let us refer to him as Hillary.
 
The lad refused to give her the key, claiming that he wasn't in service that day and hence didn't have access to it. All of that woman's pleas for assistance were ignored by the young boy, who was just focused on the game he was playing.
 
As the woman turned to leave, the fuel attendant inquired if she had been able to use the restroom; she replied that she had not and that the boy had stated that he couldn't find the key. The fuel attendant became enraged, and he had to delegate sales to another employee while he went to obtain the key.
 
When he got to Hillary, he was enraged: "How can you say you can't find the key when you can see the woman is pressed?"

To the surprise of everyone there, our dear Hillary requested to be left alone. After all, the woman had already passed him by without greeting him. We were all amazed that he didn't hand over the key to her because she didn't greet him.

He was ordered by a superior to do the needful. The same man returned with the key. All of this happened in a matter of seconds.
 
I was honestly taken aback by that young man's demeanor. Others reported she greeted even though it was in passing, despite the fact that the woman was elderly and pressed at the time.

Some of these young men can be amazing. What happened to empathy?
 
Please, parents, pay attention to all of these seemingly insignificant details; they are extremely important. What if that leads to a major disaster? He withheld the assistance he would have given to the woman on the grounds that she didn't greet him.
 
Empathy is crucial; don't simply teach it; show it.
 
I am Pastor E O Gabriel.
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