FATHERS BE INVOLVED AND GO FOR THE ROOT

 

*FATHERS BE INVOLVED AND GO FOR THE ROOT*

                                   

 
The importance of fathers' being involved in their children's lives cannot be overstated. Fathers are sources. Everything that comes out of something is also safeguarded by it.
 
The absentee father is the source of the difficulties we face with this younger generation. The process of creating a baby, as well as that of rearing the child, necessitates the participation of both genders.
 
 Let us take a cue from Judah, Jacob's son. He was the father of three sons. Er, Onan and Shelah He was very much involved in their affairs.
 
He Er got a wife when he was of marriageable age. He was a part of his life. Following his death, he notified Onan, the next in line, of what was available. What must be done.  He didn't leave it to their mother. He accepted responsibility.
 
Unfortunately Onan also died. But, as a concerned parent, he promptly intervened to correct the situation in order to preserve his only remaining child.What would have happened if he hadn't constantly been there?
 
It is not enough to provide food, shelter, school fees, and other necessities. Be a part of their lives. Be available and approachable. Some fathers are physically present but emotionally absent. They only interact with their children when they have to discipline them or pay their school fees. Aside from that, you will not see them again.
 
It's always mom for homework, school functions, sporting events, and even graduation. You're only available when you're not buried in phone calls, sports, or extra work from the office. The next thing you do is go to bed with a firm caution not to be disturbed.
 
Hmmmmm, old age is approaching. When the only person your children will naturally relate to is their mother, They will always send you money for your upkeep, but they won't be involved with you.
 
Dear Sir, fatherhood implies responsibility that extends beyond supplying sperm. Anyone can do it, but real men don't spill. Instead, they accept responsibility for what emerges from them. That is what distinguishes you as a father.
 
Where do you belong, sir?

       *GO FOR THE ROOT*

                                        

After losing two sons, Judah did everything he could as a human to save the last son. However, he was concentrating on the symptoms rather than the cause.
 
He swiftly withdrew Tamar, promising something he knew he would not do. He advised her to go wait till his son Shelah was old enough to marry. Of course, he knows he won't let her have him. Who will do it?
 
His concerns are genuine and valid. If the father of the ten brothers who perished by marrying the same lady in the gospel had done the same, he would have probably saved the day.
 
Judah perceived Tamar as the problem, but God stated that both brothers were wicked, so he killed them. Onan was much worse; he was going in to see his brother's wife, but instead of bearing a son for his brother, he spilled his sperm on the floor. He was just using the woman to straighten himself out.
 
Judah made an incorrect judgment, possibly based on an assumption. He was dealing with the fruit, not the root. The fruit will remain unchanged as long as the root remains in the soil.
 
Dear Fathers, avoid causing further difficulties in your efforts to achieve peace. If you realize something is incorrect, don't rush into it; instead, take your time to investigate it. Get to the bottom of the problem and deal with it.
 
Enlist the assistance of your wife if necessary.Many siblings are now battle-ready as a result of minor difficulties that were not properly addressed in the past. Do not make Isaac's mistake.
 
How do you explain your wife and one of your twins conspiring to scam you in your own home? Rebecca was willing to be cursed in order for Jacob to get the blessing. The fatherhood of Isaac needs to be questioned. How did he get there?
 
When there are problems, seek long-term answers rather than temporary tranquility, so that your memory might be blessed.
 
I am pastor E O Gabriel
A very blessed evening.
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