WHEN THEY MESS UP AND IS THAT YOUR MOM?

                                       

When I was younger, I saw a movie in which a young girl from a nice Christian family, whom I'll name Besty, became lost in the crowd while attempting to identify with other people.
 
As a high school student, Besty became pregnant. For the family, it was not a humorous time. Throughout the struggle, though, her family stayed by her side. She went back to school after carrying the baby to full term.
 
Through it all, she was aware that her family was dissatisfied with her actions, but their love for her remained undiminished, as evidenced by vocal and nonverbal communication.
 
She returned home one day, broken, and apologized to her family, realizing how much her parents loved her despite her mess.Because of how her issue was handled, that lady returned home.
 
Parents must recognize that when their children get themselves into a situation, it hurts their feelings, reputation, ego, and so on. The most important thing is to reclaim our children. We can't avoid letting our children be carried away by the whirlwind.
 
Much depends on how we handle things during this time. Besty's parents did not go on a rescue mission; instead, they allowed her to carry the pregnancy to term while accompanying her on her journey.
 
I can tell you that this is not the finest time for the family, but they persevere. They were able to reclaim their daughter eventually, though at a cost.
 
It's good to grieve and express your feelings when things like this happen, but it's not okay to lose your child. Love must be constant at this moment.
 
Yes, it's tough. But it's not impossible. Allow the natural repercussions of their actions to play out without interfering with the process.
 
Be strong, disciplined, and establish proper limits while loving them during the process. By the time the wind has passed, you still have your child. You are not estranged. 

IS THAT YOUR MOM?

                                       

Previously, a mother shared that once, on her way home from work, she ran into her daughter and some of her friends.

Her daughter greeted her with a handshake and asked, "How was your day?" I merely shook my head and played along, saying that everything was good.

I excused myself after exchanging pleasantries with her friends to get some things sorted. She inquired as to whether she should wait for me. I advised her to join her friends.

When she got home, the girl told her mother about the drama that ensued after they parted ways.

"Is that your mother?" was the first question. They couldn't believe she had shaken hands with her mother in a lighthearted manner in their presence in a public place.

The girl found their reaction humorous, so they began discussing what would have happened if they had done so. They won't even attempt it.

They told her how fortunate she was to have a mother who could play with her and converse freely with her peers.
 
Even though I felt like a queen, I felt sorry for my friends who couldn't play as much with their parents. So with whom will they express their problems? In whom do they confide?

What will your child say about you in public if your child is asked to give a review of you? 

I am pastor E O Gabriel.
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