ALLOW THEM
*ALLOW THEM.* We've all complained about how irresponsible youth are, but we've missed the fact that we're the ones encouraging it by establishing a system that encourages it. We foster an environment in which irresponsibility can thrive. When we avert our focus away from their wrongdoing and do all they are supposed to do for them in the name of "I don't want my children to go through what I went through." We soften every blow that comes their way; making mistakes is a no-no for them. Our housekeepers would have to do everything while they slept. At other times, they are just occupied with watching television, playing computer games, or surfing the internet. Yet our domestic workers are paid as they gain skills and competence right under our noses. We attempt to shield children from every type of suffering, but we forget that lif...